4 Success – Our Gift to the World pg2

Words Are Magic?

No, not magic. But you can make ‘magic’ in your Life by getting to know them.The phrase abracadabra means I Create What I Speak. It is magical but magic literally is defined as executed with invisible or unknown forces. Here, we make those forces visible.

Here we will learn how picking the right words and sounds to say and hear will dramatically change our lives.The English language has the tools to assist you in ‘languishing’ in it or picking your best ‘lane-gage’. There are mountains of books and study on the history of words, the symbols, the sounds, their meanings and so on. You will find access here to all the historical and relevant info but first we discuss the basics and intermediate ways to instantly and immediately change your life and relationships for the better. 

Rule #1: What you write or say out of your mind, hand and mouth has an effect / consequences. The outcome of your use of words will lean positively in your favor or you will see negative responses.

Includes all you allow into your ears and consideration. The words we choose to express or consider shape not only our relationships but also our view of the world and ourselves. 

Rule #2: Learn the knowledge of sounds, words and their influence and start getting instant feedback! This will, in very simple ways, show you how to get people to like you and listen to you. 

Rule #3: This could be rule #1. More important in any relationship are our listening skills as we learn and evolve ten times faster when we listen as opposed to forming our next words. 

To receive this gift of learning, imagine yourself not judging the other person while you listen to them. Look directly into their eyes. Consider carefully the words and tone of their expression. Make your answers contain part of their statement or question. The above actions are so rare these days we could almost call them good deeds. In reality they are good deeds. Your friends and loved ones will notice. You will personally improve.


Since we were born we make a weave of images in our mind that shapes our views of ourselves and others. Over time, some of our views of ourselves and others, become fixed or hardened in the way we perceive them. A single set of words could cause an immediate reaction. We might think it is the cause of a pile of experiences turned into images or imprints in our memory. That is only part of the story however.

So phrases that end conversations with mockery or closed-mindedness end up putting a damper on or ending that relationship. Avoid them at all cost and your happiness will increase immediately. Listening to and considering others who are voicing or writing closed minded views or ending their statements with mockery or judgement will lend itself to you, yourself becoming someone who is close minded, mocks others and judges them. 

By simply taking yourself away from listening to or speaking in hurtful or judgmental language will yield you instant results. Your view of the world and yourself will improve. All your relationships will improve. You will form new relationships.


Choose your Words Wisely

When we truly study the words and the sounds we are making with them, we can adjust our speech to achieve peace, happiness and the love and respect of others.

The words come from sounds and symbols created to identify the sounds. Gestures were added to define the meanings along with tone, emphasis and inflection.

Our language today is very complex and easy to fall into laziness using it. By watching others mis-use the language we get validation that it is OK but it is not OK.

Half of our issue is we are poor listeners and half is from following others lazy mis-use of speech and language.

…the language is literally a “lane gage” demonstrating by the arrangement of the sounds, tones and letters.

Knowing this you can learn to influence others and yourself.

This will allow you to gauge your words and the sounds of certain words to use or lend your ear to.

Discover the usefulness of knowing the symbols of letters and numbers and how to see through the built in codes to them. These codes are like maps to reveal hidden messages.

Our left hand and right hand coming together.

Answers to questions, appear as we learn to use the language, our speech and our writing to benefit others and our self. Our relationships with others and ourselves grow and evolve.

Before we start this hard work of making plans to become a good listener, we have to be quiet enough to make a list.

Quiet must come to you first. We will need Clarity. When we become quiet enough in our body and mind, then we can see the details, then we list them and realize we have gained clarity.

Quiet, See, List Gain Clarity.


While we are in quiet mode, take notice how everything that happens in order seems to be OK and gets completed. Things that are done out of order always need a re-start or never get done at all.

Unfinished business, loose ends and disregarding other’s feelings and suffering are all ‘unfinished business’.

Think of all the times you have allowed ‘unfinished business’ and how it turned out in comparison to all the times you did complete your projects or address situations all the way to their resolution.


For this collection of Buddha quotes

Ways to Quiet your Mind


Always building and evolving. One builds on the one before

Set the Conditions

How many times a day do we wish some of our noisy thoughts would go away so we could focus on something?

Answers to questions, queries and quests begin with Quiet. Without quiet we will miss some of the details and our Plan will fail. And if we fail to plan it becomes our plan to fail.

Things that are done out of order always need a re-start or never get done at all.

Before you start this hard work of making plans and lists so that you can have magic in your Life, you have to be quiet enough to make a list of details.

Answers to questions, queries and quests begin with Quiet.

You will need Clarity. Quiet comes first. When you become quiet enough in your body and mind, then you can see the details, then you list them and then you realize and gain clarity. Do you notice they are in order?

While you are in quiet mode, take notice how everything that happens in order seems to be OK and gets completed. Things that are done out of order always need a re-start or never get done at all.

Step one is to reduce and eliminate as much noise as possible. Once the noise subsides, the quiet will remain and you can more easily put things in order and order of importance. Leading to healing and evolving.

The words we choose – even in our own mind – and the sounds they contain are the secret to feeling happy and getting along with others.

Using the words no, not, never, should have, could have, would have will bring those exact things we said ‘no’ to, into our reality.

It is real. Whatever you bounce out, bounces directly on you.

We often hear people talk about meditating, law of attraction, visualizing but we are really talking about two things. Getting quiet enough in your environment, within yourself, body and mind, to make achievable lists.

The lists are only two. Both to advance your goals. First list is what you might remove from your thoughts and actions to reduce interference to your goals.

Getting quiet enough in your environment, within yourself, body and mind, to make achievable lists.

Second list is what you will add to your thoughts and actions to speed up your realization of your goals.

Take these two lists and combine them into an action / timeline list. Make it achievable and do-able.